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Adoption From Foster Care

Get the facts and resources you need to decide if adopting a child from foster care may be right for you.

The U.S. foster care system exists to provide temporary, stable homes for children who have been separated from their parents for their own safety and wellbeing. Foster care is intended as a short-term solution, with a primary goal of reunifying children with their families. When that is not possible, most children become eligible for adoption.

There are currently more than 108,000 children and teens awaiting the permanency of a loving, nurturing family.

NCFA advocates for permanency for every child in foster care, whether that permanency is achieved through reunification or adoption. We give special attention to finding families for children currently eligible and waiting to be adopted. Read below for important information to help you decide if adopting a child from foster care is right for you.

Facts & Statistics

How long do children typically spend in foster care before being adopted?

60% of children awaiting adoption have spent more than two years in foster care

What is the average age of a child awaiting adoption from foster care?

7.6 years old

About how many children in foster are legally free for adoption and awaiting permanency?

108,877

Source: AFCARS FY 2022

Considering Adoption from Foster Care?

Read these resources first.

Common Questions About Adopting from Foster Care

Get answers to common questions about adoption from foster care and resources available to parents and professionals.

Is it Possible to Adopt a Baby from Foster Care?

Infants may be placed in foster care, but it is unlikely that they will be eligible for adoption immediately. Learn about the children waiting for forever families below.

Foster Care Adoption Without Becoming a Foster Parent

Explore tools and insights to guide prospective adoptive families through the process of adopting from foster care.

Understanding the Needs and Experiences of Children in Foster Care

Sibling Adoption
Older Child Adoption
Adopting a child of a different race
Special needs adoption

Before you open your home to a child awaiting permanency, it is crucial to understand the unique aspects of parenting a child adopted from foster care.

It is essential for all foster and adoptive parents to be educated and equipped to meet the unique needs of their future child and the experiences they may face as a family. We encourage all prospective foster and adoptive parents to take a proactive approach in preparing for this lifelong journey by learning about the core issues surrounding foster care and adoption

Many people are unaware of how many children awaiting adoption have special needs, are teenagers, or are part of a sibling group. Many also don’t know how rewarding it can be to parent an older child, or a child with a medical need. While you may have a specific vision for the child you hope to adopt, it’s important to recognize that many children may fall outside these categories.

About the Process

Start learning about the adoption process now with our free, easy to access resources.

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Downloadable Guide: The Adoption Process

General step-by-step guide for adopting a child

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Free Recorded Webinar: Adoption 101

Overview of adoption types and considerations

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Recorded Webinar: Adoption from Foster Care 101

Adoption from foster care basics and answers to common questions

Ongoing Engagement with Birth Family

Children who enter foster care often have important connections to birth family members. When safe and appropriate, maintaining some level of contact with birth family is common and encouraged while the child is in foster care and after adoption.

Explore the resources below to learn more.

Post-Adoption Contact Agreements (PACAs)

A PACA is a legal document outlining the types of contact between the adoptive family and members of a child’s birth family.

Improving Open Adoptions

“Adoption creates a split between a person’s biology and biography, and openness is an essential way to help adoptees heal this split.”

Talking to Adoptees About Birth Family

Birth family conversations do not need to be filled with fear and anxiety. Here are some tips to have these conversations with your child.

Maintaining Birth Family Relationships

Learn more about maintaining, navigating and strengthening the often complex relationships with birth families here.

Getting Started

How to Choose an Adoption Professional

Learn how to choose an adoption service provider for adoption from foster care.

Adoption Agency & Attorney Directory

Search NCFA’s member directory for an adoption service provider near you.

How to Afford Adoption: Financial Resources

Cost is often a significant factor in the decision to adopt. Learn about resources that may help pay for an adoption.

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Personal Stories

Lucas’ Story

“Adoption is about that person, regardless of their skin color, who is willing to hold your hand and walk with you through the ups and downs of life and be there by your side when you need it most.”

Tori’s Story

“Foster care and adoption is sacred…But adoption also involves loss… Adoption and fostering is both, not one or the other.”

Kierre’s Story

“I always expected the worst so I wouldn’t be disappointed. I did everything to try to push them away but as hard as I tried, they always stayed solid.”

Finding Support

Creating a Family Facebook Group

Become a part of an online community for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

Locate Support Services in Your State

Search for services in your area like support groups, respite care, therapeutic services and peer support for children and parents.